1. What comes to mind when you think about growing up in [hometown]?
_ memories
2. What did you love to do as a kid, before high school?
_ walking and going to school with bicycle
3. What did you love to do in high school?
_ do anything alone without being lonely
4. What do remember most about your teenage years?
_ going to overseas with friends and have opportunities to study there
5. What do you remember most about your mom and dad?
_ mom always buzy with work while father always be cool person
6. What was most important to each of them?
_ their children
7. If grandma and grandpa had a message to you and their grandchildren, what do you think it is?
_ always pray and zikr and remember Allah, do the good deed
8.How did you meet [spouse] and know (s)he was the one?
_ he is one of my younger sister friend; and he approach me without hesitate eventhough know my education background is too high for some people
9.How did you choose your career and what was your favorite part about it?
_ still ponder
10.What made you successful at work?
_ at home, mental good should be healthy
11.What did you believe about yourself that helped you become successful and deal with hard times?
_Always remember this is not for long time, it is just phase, it will go away later
12.What times in your life truly “tested your mettle,” and what did you learn about yourself by dealing (or not dealing) with them?
_while i was metdown alone in overseas and sick, i feel very lonely
13.What 3 events most shaped your life?
_ my sister aspiration; my mother workaholic; my brother's court case
14.What do you remember about when each of us was born?
_nothing
15.Were you ever scared to be a parent?
_ Yes
16.What 3 words represented your approach to parenting and why?
_Be leader; Accountable; Dependable; leader as a mom; who will be seen as role model to my child; accountable where is there any problem, where I can help anytime, Dependable whereby people can lean to me whenever there are hard time
17.When you think about [sibling] how would you describe him?
_brother- leader
-sister; accountable
younger sister 1 n 3friends
younger brother- little friend
18.What message do you have for [sibling] that you want him to always keep in mind?
- Always keep it together whenever things go out of control
[Do the last two questions above for each sibling in your family]
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19.When you think about [spouse], how would you describe her/him?
_ Accountable
20.What message do you have for [spouse] that you want her/him to always keep in mind?
_ Keep checking my emotional health
21.What 3 words best describe who you tried to be in life and how you want to be remembered?
_ Optimist
-Good Listener
- Do hang out with me anytime you want
22.When they think about their careers, what do you want your children to focus on?
_ Studies on humanity with religious background
23.What have you learned about other people in life?
_ They will do what they want, they do not think about you, so why bother, live your life!
24.What do you think the world needs more of right now?
_ Love and sharing
25.What do you believe people want the most in life?
_ Money
26.What were the 3 best decisions you ever made?
_ accept rhe offer studies intern overseas
- accept myself as they are
- marry with my hubby
27.What are you most proud of in life?
_Completed my Phd
28.What were 5 of the most positive moments of your life?
_ Deliver my daughter
- Completed my dual phd
- Went to Thailand for 1 year alone
- friends with my friends
- Still hanging there in life without regret
29.What message would you like to share with your family?
_ I like to be where I am right now
30.What are you most thankful for?
For still giving me change living my life rite now
